I'm a bit older and wiser with a slightly clearer idea of where I fit into "what it is that we do." I am still down-to-earth, artsy, very intelligent, reasonably articulate, eerily self-aware, and possessed of relatively eclectic tastes. I still don't fit size two couture gowns... or stereotypes. In the days since joining alt.com I have had all kinds of experiences and have expanded my repertoire to include things I would have cringed at just a few years ago. If the mood and the partner are right, I even enjoy topping from time to time though I am still primarily a bottom.
I seek a reasonably experienced dom or switch, preferably Caucasian (though I am not inflexible in that regard) aged 35-65. Ideally I'm looking for a relationship but I would consider something that stays on a casual plane as long as my partner can be at least a regular [B]friend[/B] with benefits and understands that the NSA aspect of things goes both ways. If you adore rough sex, bondage, sensuality, a bit of psychological play, and spanking big black asses for all they're worth, we should talk.
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My Ideal Person:
I don't judge anyone's desires and fantasies but I do not want to waste the time of those who are clearly not an appropriate match, thus, I respectfully decline in advance the following types of doms:
Feeders: I am fat enough. Thank you!
Breeders: If you don't plan to feed it, don't breed it with me.
24/7, TPE Masters: I want more than a "bedroom dom" but I will always have a life and will apart from you. Extremely poor writers: I welcome e-mails but I am not a code breaker. I need fully formed words and sentences in Standard English, though I certainly understand if you are not a native English speaker. I know limited French if that helps.
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