I am a strong submissive. I am not submissive because I am weak or because I can’t make decisions for myself. I’m not submissive because I am not smart enough to do the right thing or because I am too meek or weak to survive on my own. I make the choice to give up control to someone and I think there is a lot of strength in that decision and I want to be respected for that decision. I think it takes strength to be a good submissive, to put aside your own needs for the pleasure of the man you submit to. I want to be able to be strong enough to lead my vanilla life (my friends, my family, my job) and still be able to go home and be the best submissive possible. I want to be strong enough to be able to fulfill his needs and to serve him to the best of my ability.
Being submissive is not synonymous with being easy or slutty. I am not sure how the two became so intertwined. Not sleeping with you on the first time meeting does not make me any less of a submissive. Also, creating a D/s relationship takes time and trust. If you believe that I should give up complete control to you the first time we talk, please do not contact me.
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