Looking for the real deal as far as a D/s dynamic.
Too picky for my own good. On the pursuit of the real deal.
I had both good and bad experiences in the past. The Dom who "showed me the ropes" so to speak provided me with such incredible exposure to the BDSM lifestyle that I have yet to find someone who can surpass him. So yes, its a bit of a challenge. Think you're game?
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My Ideal Person:
Unfortunately (though possibly fortunately for you/us) things came to an end and I hadn't quite figured out my limits just yet. I definitely hold hard limits with the way nonconventional (blood, needles, bodily fluids...) though I can handle a few hidden marks. I swear a couple of my fingers are still numb from a suspension that grew a bit too tight after having too much fun.
As I mentioned, I am picky. Please don't mistake this for bitchiness. I know what I like. I have a type. Tall (6ft plus), long hair (negotiable), in shape, 110% dominant (but you might have tried things the other way around just to see what its like). I, too, have played the role of a Mistress and I love love love it--it brings out a different part of me and can be quite therapeutic--but I could never be a switch with my ideal Dom. As soon as I know I can overpower someone, thats the only way it can be. With women this is a different story, though my experience there is very limited.
This site has me a bit hesitant. I meet plenty of people in my day to day life and would like to remain single to focus on my many life pursuits. I am open to the right person. I'm also not here just for a booty call. As I'm sure you can do: I can easily call up an old fling for that. Maybe I am looking for some fantasy unicorn situation...if so, let it be. No pressure
I dislike that my profile sounds so tenacious. Positive energy intended. Beyond that, I hope you are all having fun out there and here on this site. So happy this place exists.
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