I like my partners to be unattached and in control in the bedroom. I love sex, but more so connection, touching, new sensations... I am interested in positions that will allow comfort, as well as maximum effectiveness, as I have a condition that makes it a bit difficult for me to relax and let go. I prefer one-on-one sex with the full focus and attention of my man. I'm new to the lifestyle and look forward to trying bondage (ropes, especially), blindfolds, nipple clamps/cups, wax, mild to medium pain (spanking/paddling/flogging), orgasm control, anal, and oral (I like give and take). I'm a squirter!
I don’t want a relationship, they hold you back. I want a best friend I can sleep with, make love to, hustle with, travel with, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner in crime, a life partner. Someone that I can laugh with and build with. Somebody that I can trust with my heart, my money and my life. Somebody I'm not afraid to lose because I know they'll always be there. Relationships just aren't for me, but a partnership - I'll take that!!
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My Ideal Person:
A strong, attentive, caring, intuitive, positive, commanding, man who knows how to slowly take both of us "to infinity and beyond" in our sex play. (Bonus points if you can name the movie the quote is from!) As a bigger gal, I understand body issues; but, to be true to my desire, I must say that I long for a well sculpted man who is beautiful and intelligent on the inside, as well. I want to be stimulated physically and mentally.
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