I am looking for a long-term, monogamous, relationship with a dominant, decisive man who is over 35, unmarried and unpartnered LIVING in the Chicagoland area. A confident, yet not arrogant man. One who takes initiative and initiates conversation and meetings. One who is a gentleman in public, holds doors, treats a lady like a lady. I believe in male-led relationships, like a 1950s type of relationship (except, I do have a full-time job). I am an educated professional. I have school age , but have a lot of free time as they are often with their dad. I have been in the lifestyle for 4 years, I've had 2 long-term D/s relationships. I am social within the local bdsm community.
I am looking to date, go to dinner, the movies, a day at the beach, a hike in the woods, a game of pool, something vanilla, then if there is a connection, then the power exchange will flow naturally.
I am a 24/7 submissive, meaning it is not a role I play in the bedroom. A real D/s dynamic is not about playing 'roles'; it is about real relating... It is not a game; it is life. There is no start or stop, and no time outs. I'm not looking to "experience" any particular type of submission. I will not discuss what turns me on or what I do in the bedroom, unless we are dating. If you're out for casual sex or just think kinky sex is hot, look elsewhere... I am here to see if I can find the right combination of boyfriend, Dom, Master, & Daddy. I feel like I should put a secret password here to make sure I only respond to men who took the time to read my profile, that seems to be rare on here. You would not be the kind of man I would be interested in if you didn't take the time to read the profile before you asked a person out. Oh, and you have to ask, I am not interested in long drawn out online conversations.
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